The New Loves

So 2008 definitely brought some new loves into my life. Let me count the ways.....

1. Trying out new restaurants -- So the picky, only-want-to-eat-at-this-or-that-place person has turned a 180. I now love discovering new places and trying new foods and taking in the new atmospheres. Among the little treasures I have found include Obee's in Ottawa, Savannah's in Sandwich, Eastern Europe in Romeoville, and The Cove in Morris.

2. Winchester Chimes -- the tune takes me back to my grandma's huge, old house where the clock (which took up half of the wall) chimed the same tune on the hour. That house was my heaven until my grandparents decided to move into something smaller and sold it in 2004. I never knew what the chime was until I was in a small resale shop and heard it again. There on a shelf, was a small clock that chimed the same tune. The clock now sits on my shelf.

3. Chess -- a game that before this year I had given up even attempting to learn. But with a little patience on the part of a couple of good friends, I have a new-found love for the classic game of war. Mind-warping, extremely frustrating at times, but by the end, you will probably find me smiling. Plus, there's nothing wrong with exercising the brain a bit with strategically planning your moves and anticipating your opponents. #1 Plan: Don't Die.

4. Over Easy Eggs -- Was always a scrambled eggs girl until I found the delicious combo of dipping my toast into the runny yolk of the egg. Um, orgasm in my mouth!

5. Wrapping Christmas Presents -- after years of crappy wrapping, I finally have straighter edges (not perfect....cutting is not my fortay), nice folds, curly ribbons, and not so much tape. I applaud myself this year!

6. Batman -- I have always been a Batman-loving girl before people even thought about "Batman Begins" or the "Dark Knight." After riding the bus home from school, Batman: The Animated Series was on at 4pm and I did not miss it as a grade-schooler. So, imagine my glee at finding out the entire series was released on DVD seasons. Throughout 2008, I purchased them and now own all of the seasons.

7. Sherlock Holmes -- Always knew who he was and what he did but never really delved into his world. I'm loving Sir Arthur Doyle's much aclaimed character and his historic adventures.

8. Tic Tac Chill Mints -- they are my addiction -- my cocaine.

9. Thin Mint Shots -- Peppermint Snaupps with a bit of chocolate syrup and you have a delightful new shot with all of its alcoholy-goodness.

10. "Homework" -- No, not the school kind. I learned about doing your "homework" from Scott Smith who runs a "Motivation to Move" website and also has a "Daily Boost" podcast that I listen to. His idea of "homework" is to sit down once a week and just reflect on your life -- where you are at, who you are, what you value, where you want to go, who you want to be, and what kinds of things you do to get there. You just jot this stuff down and answer the question -- am I where I want to be? Am I who I want to be? You may just jot down some stuff you want to improve on or do in the coming week. Self-reflection is a good thing.

11. Podcasts -- I had an iPod for 2 years before I discovered what podcasts were. These free audio and video "casts" have enough subjects for everybody. I have subscribed to the "Kathy and Judy" podcast which plays highlights from their popular radio show, a podcast to teach me spanish, one to show me how the play the piano, one that has interviews with paranormal researchers, and one that plays Joel Osteen's preaching. Variety right? With thousands of podcasts, you can find what you are looking for.

12. Work -- No matter what the work is, if you have awesome people working alongside you, you will love your job. That's my theory. Tested and proved.

13. Flossing -- my whole mouth just feels cleaner afterward

14. A Bit of Faith -- Believing that everything happens for a reason. I happened upon the concept while an undergrad in college but I have fully grasped it and am holding on tight.

New Beginning

I bet you are wondering what "It Happens" is all about. What is "it"? Well, it is life. Life happens. Whether we want it to or not. It does not stop for any one. It doesn't slow down or speed up. It keeps its own pace. So we need to make the most of it. We acknowledge that it's happening and we make the most of it. We should enjoy it. I have always wanted to do a blog but have put it off. So, I have finally gotten my act together and created two blogs. You can find my other blog "Inspirational Madness" under my profile. I encourage you to read, comment, or email me at it.happens247@gmail.com.

2009 has already started off with some new beginnings in people's lives. I recently attended M&R's wedding right after the new year. Two people starting off the new year as a wife/husband and ready to tackle life together. After trekking off on their honeymoon, they are moving clear across the country to the east coast to begin a whole new life in Maryland. Then, I celebrated with friends when a former roommate of mine, J, moved into her first place outside of home -- her first apartment with her boyfriend. She is switching out her need for ramen noodles and jeans to frying pans, towels, and a place to finally call her own. When I met her at the door with a house-warming bottle of wine in hand, I could see her excitement at how she has built this new part of her life. I don't think I have ever been so proud or happy for her. This year is her year of new beginnings. And finally, while we were out celebrating, J's friend had stopped by to announce that her boyfriend had proposed to her. She whipped out a bottle of champagne and showed off the ring. This is their new beginning. And......it's only been......what.....two weeks! One new proposal, one marriage, and one new home to start out the new year. If January is going to be like this, I can't wait to see what the rest of the year has in store for the people in my life!


Later Dayz,

Stephanie